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this thread sure is getting long.
I was noticing that this thread is really getting long as well.Has anyone noticed that the woman has not come back to say anything? This was a simple drive by posting.
I agree with ALC Rail Rider completely on Trama. Being inconvenienced, even missing your train is NOT Trauma. It does not matter whether you are male female, 5 25, 55, 95 or something in between what happened does not rise anywhere close to trauma. If you think it does, you have some serious mental dysfunction.
We have given this Drama Queen 9 pages of satisfaction. It is time for it to stop, and in fact deleting the thread seems like a good idea to me.
I'm against deleting this thread. The discussion has covered a lot of territory, most of it interesting. At this point, the intentions and comportment of the OP are irrelevant to the value of the posts.We have given this Drama Queen 9 pages of satisfaction. It is time for it to stop, and in fact deleting the thread seems like a good idea to me.
I think by further discussion we are only not only giving her more time on the stage, but encouraging others to come here and do the same thing which is disruptive to our community. I will move once again to have this topic locked-- In PM.Has anyone noticed that the woman has not come back to say anything? This was a simple drive by posting.
I agree with ALC Rail Rider completely on Trama. Being inconvenienced, even missing your train is NOT Trauma. It does not matter whether you are male female, 5 25, 55, 95 or something in between what happened does not rise anywhere close to trauma. If you think it does, you have some serious mental dysfunction.
We have given this Drama Queen 9 pages of satisfaction. It is time for it to stop, and in fact deleting the thread seems like a good idea to me.
I heartily agree. It isn't about Ruth, it's about us.I'm against deleting this thread. The discussion has covered a lot of territory, most of it interesting. At this point, the intentions and comportment of the OP are irrelevant to the value of the posts.We have given this Drama Queen 9 pages of satisfaction. It is time for it to stop, and in fact deleting the thread seems like a good idea to me.
Oops. I will go back and edit my original.Its ALC Rail Writer... I write poems about trains, though, both are flattering. I thank you Bill.
Heh, no worries my friend George... I'll do the same.Oops. I will go back and edit my original.Its ALC Rail Writer... I write poems about trains, though, both are flattering. I thank you Bill.
George
Agreed. Besides, if the moderators or admin wanted to kill the thread they already would have. Don't like it, don't read it.I'm against deleting this thread. The discussion has covered a lot of territory, most of it interesting. At this point, the intentions and comportment of the OP are irrelevant to the value of the posts.We have given this Drama Queen 9 pages of satisfaction. It is time for it to stop, and in fact deleting the thread seems like a good idea to me.
Not everyone considers their gender to be straightforwardly male or female, in which case a single letter isn't sufficient to express it.gender is just a letter
the OP needs to be on failblog.orgI have NO (NONE, ZERO, NADA) sympathy for somebody who knowingly creates their own disfunction. Your mess is your mess, not mine. Somebody (many people) at that station were subjected to an unfortunate circumstance which should have passed. Instead we have a rant here by a person who decided to make her own situation even worse and then complain about it-- then people on this board have the nerve to make the situation even worse than she made it by offering her sympathy and genuine compassion for her "trauma".
Getting shot is a trauma.
Getting raped is a trauma.
Has anyone noticed that the woman has not come back to say anything? This was a simple drive by posting.
I agree with ALC Rail Writer completely on Trama. Being inconvenienced, even missing your train is NOT Trauma. It does not matter whether you are male female, 5 25, 55, 95 or something in between what happened does not rise anywhere close to trauma. If you think it does, you have some serious mental dysfunction.
We have given this Drama Queen 9 pages of satisfaction. It is time for it to stop, and in fact deleting the thread seems like a good idea to me.
I think every mode of transportation has its problems some of the time. I've had an engine fail in the middle of a thousand mile drive in an automobile. I've had an airline claim my flight was bustituted and then fail to provide me with adequate instructions as to where to actually find said bus (which maybe I can claim was a bus and airplane problem simultaneously). I think the only reasonable advice we can offer to people who can't tolerate the slightest risk that something might go wrong in their travels is to not travel at all.Some people expect everything to work as advertised,all the time and just fly off on one when it doesn't. Life ain't like that, especially on the railway!
I've lately made a habit of walking for about ten mintes from my home to the subway on each trip, which provides a big incentive to limit what I'm bringing to what I can reasonably carry. I did take advantage of checked luggage on my last Amtrak trip, dropping off some luggage at South Station the day before my departure, and picking up some luggage the day after I returned, and getting help from my parents dealing with that extra luggage on the other end of my trip.Some people seem to take too much luggage anyway, I always take what I can carry, any more than that is just a pain.
Bustituted out of Oahu! That must have been quite a Swim!I've had an airline claim my flight was bustituted and then fail to provide me with adequate instructions as to where to actually find said bus (which maybe I can claim was a bus and airplane problem simultaneously).
In the case of that missed bustitution trip I mentioned above, I was moving from Oahu to the Boston area, as well as moving out of my parents' home.
Way to totally miss the point of the post.Not everyone considers their gender to be straightforwardly male or female, in which case a single letter isn't sufficient to express it.gender is just a letter
A ten-minute walk with something fairy heavy is good at showing how much heavier it gets as you carry it!I've lately made a habit of walking for about ten mintes from my home to the subway on each trip, which provides a big incentive to limit what I'm bringing to what I can reasonably carry. I did take advantage of checked luggage on my last Amtrak trip, dropping off some luggage at South Station the day before my departure, and picking up some luggage the day after I returned, and getting help from my parents dealing with that extra luggage on the other end of my trip.
The planes took me as far as Newark, NJ. Only my checked luggage made it to Hartford that day, though. (I was actually trying to get to Bridgeport that day.)Bustituted out of Oahu! That must have been quite a Swim!I've had an airline claim my flight was bustituted and then fail to provide me with adequate instructions as to where to actually find said bus (which maybe I can claim was a bus and airplane problem simultaneously).
In the case of that missed bustitution trip I mentioned above, I was moving from Oahu to the Boston area, as well as moving out of my parents' home.
AlanB already indicated that it is not this board's policy to lock or delete threads which wander off topic as long as they do not get abusive.I think by further discussion we are only not only giving her more time on the stage, but encouraging others to come here and do the same thing which is disruptive to our community. I will move once again to have this topic locked-- In PM.
I personally doubt the OP ever came back to read these responses: she didn't register, so she can't track it on her favorites, and I doubt she knew to bookmark the URL. If she came back to these forums looking for the replies, she won't find it: it's been buried along with the dozens of other threads that are added to each day--perhaps showing on page 2 or 3 of the thread listing (and I doubt she knew how to get to page 2 or 3).And that is exactly what we try to promote here. We don't lock topics because they are difficult, or because they criticize Amtrak, or because they wander off the original topic. The OP most likely wanted to do nothing more than vent, and perhaps try to discourage a few people from riding Amtrak as a way of extracting her revenge for the wrong that she feels she suffered. And I'm not suggesting one way or the other that she was right or wrong. She also probably believed that this is something run by Amtrak, which it is not.This sounds like healthy disagreement, which has morphed into a fascinating conversation about very many interesting things - part of what makes this site great.
But she's not the first to come here to vent, and I'm sure that she won't be the last either. But we're also not going to stop people from coming here to vent. We discuss all aspects of Amtrak here, good and bad.
Wow, for me, this thread has not only been on page 1 all along, but constantly near the top of page 1. Its been pretty lively debate.If she came back to these forums looking for the replies, she won't find it: it's been buried along with the dozens of other threads that are added to each day--perhaps showing on page 2 or 3 of the thread listing (and I doubt she knew how to get to page 2 or 3).
ALC-Do you really think this thread or others like it are are disruptive? I know it sounds like a rude question, I don't mean it that way. What I've seen of this board is that sometimes there are disagreements, but overall the participants seem to get along fairly well. If we all had exactly the same opinion, we'd be pretty boring! After some thought, maybe it should continue, because it seems to be a very active one. If her intention was to cause strife (that's a big if), it has failed miserably! If that were true, I think she would come back on and vent more to try to stir it up. I don't think she thought this board is part of Amtrak, I think she was complaining. She was trying to wrap it in a 'warning' so that it wouldn't look like she was complaining. If it had been just a warning, all she would have needed to say is 'be prepared to carry your own luggage as in this instance they had no checked on baggage'. Or she could have formed it in a question.I think by further discussion we are only not only giving her more time on the stage, but encouraging others to come here and do the same thing which is disruptive to our community. I will move once again to have this topic locked-- In PM.
AlanB already indicated that it is not this board's policy to lock or delete threads which wander off topic as long as they do not get abusive.
I personally doubt the OP ever came back to read these responses: she didn't register, so she can't track it on her favorites, and I doubt she knew to bookmark the URL. If she came back to these forums looking for the replies, she won't find it: it's been buried along with the dozens of other threads that are added to each day--perhaps showing on page 2 or 3 of the thread listing (and I doubt she knew how to get to page 2 or 3).And that is exactly what we try to promote here. We don't lock topics because they are difficult, or because they criticize Amtrak, or because they wander off the original topic. The OP most likely wanted to do nothing more than vent, and perhaps try to discourage a few people from riding Amtrak as a way of extracting her revenge for the wrong that she feels she suffered. And I'm not suggesting one way or the other that she was right or wrong. She also probably believed that this is something run by Amtrak, which it is not.This sounds like healthy disagreement, which has morphed into a fascinating conversation about very many interesting things - part of what makes this site great.
But she's not the first to come here to vent, and I'm sure that she won't be the last either. But we're also not going to stop people from coming here to vent. We discuss all aspects of Amtrak here, good and bad.
Er, duh. Forgot about the fact that replies bump it to the top. h34r:Wow, for me, this thread has not only been on page 1 all along, but constantly near the top of page 1. Its been pretty lively debate.If she came back to these forums looking for the replies, she won't find it: it's been buried along with the dozens of other threads that are added to each day--perhaps showing on page 2 or 3 of the thread listing (and I doubt she knew how to get to page 2 or 3).
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