I think the "meeting people" can be important even for toddlers. I still remember an early train trip to "out east" with my mom and baby brother and the chance to meet new people- in very safe circumstances - on the train.
My daughter (now 25) clearly remembers a trip at age 4 from MSP WAS (Dad - what was the problem with that woman in the dining car - she was telling me that those auto racks were "cattle cars"?)
Even very young kids can learn from meeting (with parental supervision) slightly deluded train passengers. How else to learn about such, if not at school, or from parent's work. (Parents, of course, are never mistaken about anything - Hah! - I think it helps to introduce kids to other adults who are slightly more delusional even than us parents - helps in the longer run - in the mid teens - dad can say "I'm not as nuts as "--")
Yeah - for kids also - meeting strangers and strange people on the train is probably a good thing - and for that, the train is better by far than private auto, air, bus - in that order. Kids need to learn,
So do us old folks .
I took my kids on the train last month and was frankly glad that they didn't meet anyone on that train. There were a couple of people in the lounge that had been imbibing a little too much. There was the one lady who, upon finding out that she'd have to go down
stairs to get to the cafe, let out with a super loud "F---" that the whole car heard, and then proceeded to alternately wail and swear about how difficult everything had been going for her. There were the woman and man at the station in Tucson who got in a huge shouting match with all manner of profanities flying left and right because the woman thought the man had made some remark about her mother while they were on the train. I thought the police were going to get called for that one.
Seriously, what is wrong with people? When gathered together with other people, can't we all just agree to act civilized? Particularly with language... I'll use a few swear words from time to time when I know who I'm speaking with and I'm sure the situation allows for it, but never in a public setting among people I don't know. That's just not civilized. I'm not worried that a few swear words are going to permanently scar my kids or anything, but I really don't like putting them in situations like that. I'm trying to teach them that that behavior is
unacceptable, and I don't like putting them in situations where other people are acting like it's perfectly
acceptable. I just have to treat those situations as educational opportunities and tell my kids, "see, this is a good example of how
not to act" while just hoping that expanding their world view in this way ends up with a positive effect. It left a bit of a sour taste in my mouth and it will make me much more hesitant about bringing my kids on the train in the future.
I'm hesitant about even bringing my kids to the station for that matter. At the Tucson station, they've got an old steam locomotive on display, and on National Train Day they were letting kids climb in to the cab, ring the bell, etc. While my kids were in the cab, the one ancient volunteer there in the cab was saying to the other ancient volunteer, "f--- this", "f--- that", etc. Come on! It's not just that kids
might be present. There are kids all over this locomotive! Your whole reason for being up in the cab is to show it to kids! Seriously, what is wrong with people?