p&sr
OBS Chief
Thank you for your Vote of Confidence. I try not to be too offensive while riding, and I try not to deliberately provoke little ones into making trouble. One of the most interesting things about Rail Travel is the great variety of different people one encounters on board.Gosh, I didn't find (name omitted) any more offensive than p&sr, if "offensive" is even the right word. They both expressed an opinion that I felt were very opposite extremes. But it is still their opinion, and honestly, probably a good example of the extremes one might find with other passengers onboard a train.
I remember one time when I was bothered by kids on board. There was a school-aged Soccer Team returning home from a Tournament out-of-state. All the kids were in the Lounge car, playing cards. One of them was screaming wildly after every play. After the first 40 minutes or so, this got a little wearying. I tried some gentle "shushing" gestures, to no avail. Then my wife gently advised the child, "Use your Indoor Voice...".
At this, the kid's Dad stood up. Way down at the other end of the lounge, weighing 350 pounds and all muscle, accompanying three other guys from the group with the same build. In a Thunderous Voice he declared, "You got an issue with My Kid, You talk to ME about it, Understand?"
So I explained to him, Your child does not actually have to constantly Scream like a Banshee while playing cards, perhaps you could have him tone it down a bit?
He replied in his Thunderous Voice, "You got an issue with My Kid, You talk to ME about it, Understand?"
So I explained that I was doing exactly that, and could the child kindly be a bit quieter while playing cards?
At this, he was absolutely dumbstruck. He sat down, muttering to his pals that "some people don't think the Lounge Car is for Having Fun."
Remarkably, the kid sensed his lack of ongoing support for rowdiness, and played quietly for another ten minutes before going back to his room without comment.
So the moral of the story is, You meet all kinds, and then you do what you can with it.